Monday, November 21, 2011

Newborn Pertussis




Remember when your baby got sick for the first time?  You were a new parent, your baby cried bloody murder, and you didn’t know what to do.  Deep in your stomach there was a gut wrenching stress you never felt before.  Hopefully it was just a common cold and nothing serious right?

Wrong.  It was serious and this is where our story begins:

Pediatrician Visit

The twins were just over 2 months old. Both twins were coughing.  It started small then violent, to the point where their faces turned red.  “It shouldn’t be anything the doc can’t fix”, I thought to myself.  At the pediatrician’s office, she examined the girls.  She then stared wide-eyed at her reports.  Her face was blank.  She put her hand on her chin, proceeded to the door and said, “I need to make a call.”

“Great, she doesn’t have a clue what’s going on.”  I thought to myself.  We continued to wait in the room.  I rolled my eyes into the back of my head. 

The pediatrician returned.  “I’m sending you to emergency and they will perform these tests.”  Off to emergency.

Emergency Visit

Unless you are dying, then you know emergency doesn’t mean urgency.  We checked in at 14:00. The girls needed, chest x-rays, blood samples, nose swabs and vitals measured.  For the next 9 hours. I saw the twins get probed.  Thermometers were inserted into their rectum, suction tubes stuck down their nose into their throat, and their little feet pricked to get blood samples. 

At 23:00, it was decided we needed to stay overnight.

The Next 5 days

Over the next couple days I felt I was moving into the hospital, bringing pillows, food, and clothes to the room we stayed in.  Although the hospital chair that converted into a bed felt comfy, I wanted out.  The girls were put into separate hospital cage beds. Monitors were connected to them to check their heartbeats and oxygen levels.  They were also given intravenous fluids and antibiotics to help them.  It wasn’t uncommon for us to wake up every hour to the sound of alarms because the twins would stop breathing.  It also wasn’t uncommon for both the twins to stop breathing at the same time.  I’m not sure how many times I ripped the cord out of the wall to signal the nurses of emergency.  It was too many to count. 

Pertussis

It was originally thought the girls had respiratory syncytial virus (RSV) but later confirmed it was whooping cough (pertussis).  The longer I become a parent, the faster I feel I could have a career as an MD.  The treatment of pertussis called for biaxin, an antibiotic.  This was given orally to the kids.  Anyone in close contact with the twins also needed to take antibiotics.  

Recovery

After 5 nights at the hospital, the girls finally came home and now have regained some weight they lost.  The cough has subsided but will take another couple weeks to completely disappear.  Through this whole ordeal I must say the staff and care at Markham Stouffville Hospital was excellent.  The doctors and nurses were great, easy to talk to and responsive.  

As for me, I surprisingly did not over worry.  Just another bump in the road and this too shall pass.  I let the staff at the hospital do their job and teach me what to do.  If something was going to happen, we were in the right place, the hospital.  So with that, tune into my next post, jobless with twins.

Monday, November 14, 2011

Priceless Smiles

Some days we all get caught up with the burdens of life.  We forget and lose track what is most important to us.  We worry about things that won't happen 80% of the time.  Even when life is at it's darkest hour, there is a beam of light.  My beam of light comes from these two photos.  I hope this brightens everyone's day as well.  We sometimes forget, how much a smile can make a difference.

Jayde smiling away

Quynn smiling with Mom

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

You know you are a new parent when...

Nothing can really explain the full extent of what it means to be a new parent, especially to twins.  To help explain, I have come up with a list:  “You know you’re a new parent when....”  Here it goes, from the man’s perspective :
You know you are a new parent when:
1.       You don’t know when you’ll get 8 consecutive hours of sleep again.
2.       You also don’t know when business hours will re-open for intimacy.   It’s what got you into this mess in the first place so you can forget about it.
3.       You’ve had thoughts of feeding your kid alcohol so they will fall asleep.
4.       It’s the first time you’ve used the closed captioning on your TV.
5.       You finally understand why shaking baby syndrome exists.
6.       First thing you look for at the mall are the family washrooms and elevators...along with Gymboree and Baby Gap.
7.       You start to notice how many lazy people use the elevators with you.  I’d love to tell them “Your legs don’t look broke.” 
8.       You wanted to destroy that $200 baby monitor you thought was so cool.
9.       You get pissed off at putting those tiny cotton mitts on your kids hands because it never fails to get caught in their fingers.
10.    Being pooed, peed, and vomitted on are common events.   Smelling like that all day is also common.
11.   It is acceptable to shower every other day, or two, or three. 
12.    You’ve put food in the microwave, only to find it still there the next day.     
13.   Baby Enstein is bigger than any of your Biggie Smalls,  Lady Gaga,  Led Zepplin  CDs.  Heck you’d probably go to their concert if they had one.
14.   You feel like a freak show when people at the mall go out of their way to see your twins.  “Hey George, come here, bring little Katie, they have twins.   I should have a coin jar and charge for admission.
15.   The only batteries you buy now are D batteries.
And there are many more examples but time is luxury now.  To wrap it up, here are few pictures of the girls


A couple weeks old
Brix swears he didn't make them cry
Chilling with Mom
Chilling with Dad

  
2 months old